Motivation

Motivation is very important in our life. Without that, we can't tobe hard worker. Beside that, success only able to we gain if we maintain motivation. How to maintain or keep our motivation?Here it is

• Imagine your dream become true

If we believe our dream able to become true, we never give up to achieve it and indirectly we can keep our motivation indeed.

• Focus on our strength not our weakness

When we focus on our strength, we can be self-confidence however if we focus on our weakness,our motivation will be gone.

• Eating healthy foods

We get used to eating healthy foods every day will make us get spirit to do our activity. We able to do our work well and our motivation become increase.

• Good environment

Environment usually will be effect to our success. Good family and friends can boost our success indeed. So,we should gain good friends in relationship who can maintain our success motivation.
 

Creativity

Creativity doesn't come from hard think but creativity comes instantly without long thinking. Sometimes creativity is not legitimate. Creavity skill can be obtained from :

• Many learning

We should do not limit ourself to learn something. Learn what we like canbe boost ourself tobe creativity people and enjoy to learn what we like. In fact,learning is not only by reading but also by hearing, searching and so forth.

• Feel free

We should do not regret what has happened and do not too afraid what will happen, because the past is history and the future is mystery. We've only this moment, so just do it and do the best for today. 

• Don't do single work

Doing the same thing from day after day will turn off our creativity. We able to do something different in the weekend indeed if our occupation requires us to do samething day after day. 

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Willingness to Learn

      I thought willingness to learn is necessary in our career. If we compare what we learn in the college a little different than what we face in workplace. In the college, what we learn is not too applicable. So, many people must learn again when face world career. In the college, we don't learn soft skill so much in campus, meanwhile soft skill is fundamental thing in the world career. So, we should learn not only in the college but also learn in the informal place too. Soft skill can we get in the informal place indeed. 

How to foster the willingness of learn?

• Aware that is important what we learn

If we aware we need something, we will be gain willingness to learn instantly. We able to learn easily without stress off course. We relish step by step what we learn. It's very fun indeed.

• Aware that learning make us tobe innovative person

Innovative can't we get instantly, but we must learn to get inspiration and we able to achieve our dream.

• Don't ever be satisfied to keep learning

If we satisfied, we will be stop to learn. We will not go forward because as we know science and technology continue to evolve.

Self-Awareness

      Self awareness is comprehend about strengths and weaknesses that we possess. If we comprehend ourself so much, we able to controll ourself well. Self-awareness will be beneficial in our daily activity, career, friendship and so forth. We able to increase our strengths and erase our weaknesses, at least able to relieve our weaknesses. 
How tobe self-awareness?

• Consult with expert

Usually an expert in psychologist science has a consultation service but off course we have to pay for that. But if we wanna free charge, we also able to find in the internet. There are many consultation of psychologist to know our strengths  and our weaknesses too there.

• Ask others directly

Maybe it is listened too extreme but I think effective too. We will be shocked about judments of others about us, but this is will be give many impact to ourself. To get honest answer from other, we able ask others to write in a paper without name. Maybe somebody feeling unwell to give honest answer about our weaknesses.

• Meditation

Any body has proven that meditation able to make him self-awareness. Meditation able to do everyday in the same time and same place to get it's impact. 

•  Accept constructive criticism

Constructive criticism will make us to be a better person. We also able to aware about our virtue and badness too.

Positive Attitude

      Positive attitude is one of the emotional intelligence equation what we are necessity. Someone who has positive attitude easy be accepted by others, so we can easily make a relationship with others. Everybody will be cheerful to has connection with positive attitude person. 

Now, how to get positive attitude or how to erase negative attitude in our self?

• Smile

I dare to say that smile can relieve bad situation and create positive attitude in ourself. We should smile every day and relieve moody in our daily activity. Somebody who often moody will be difficult to be accepted in relationship. So, we should to make effort keep smile to face a problem. As long as we live, we certainly have a problem and depend on us how to resolve the problem by smile or by moody that can effect to our circumstance indeed.

• Food

I bold to say that food able to influence our attitude because I already proved. When I usually eat healthy food and erase junk food in my daily activity, I feel able to accomplish res calmly and I feel far from stress. If we have accomplished our problem calmly, we also maintain our positive attitude in daily activity indeed.

• Tidy

When we take care of tidy in our routine, we will be looked well-organized and indirectly we able to raise up positive attitude. The neat people won't easy stress because everything is regular.

• Positive thinking

This is could be a fundamental thing to gain positive attitude. Positive attitude is borned from positive thinking. Because a person is what he thinks.

Self-Confidence

      Self-confidence is include emotional intelligence equation that we need. NO BODY IS PERFECT. We shall self confidence if we believe that nobody is perfect. Someone able to learn from mistake that his/her doing. So, just self-confidence and don't think so hard what people say about us. 

      In fact, everybody is too busy to do their each activity and don't have much time to think about us. If we make mistake, just effort don't do it again and forget it. If somebody laugh you, maybe it just for a moment and they don't remember again if we still self-confidence while doing many mistake. 

      Many advantage we able to gain, if we keep our self-confidence. We never fearful to do something because we believe able to do it well. But, if reallity we can't do it well, it's no problem because we have done and we have done the best what ever the result. We able to be free, able to do what we want provided that a good activity and while is not disturbing others.

Listening to the Music

      I perceive that productive person is one of the emotional intelligence equation that have to we get. I perceive that listening to the music is appropriate hobby for productive person. According to me, listening to the music is good hobby for productive person. To get success, we need become productive person indeed. 

      We shall do our hobby while do our job. We don't need stress to do our job because we also shall do our hobby too. I like listen music such as jazz,pop and so forth. I feel very enjoy while listening to the music. 

      Why am I dare to say that when we doing our job, we also able to listening to the music?When I met a dentist a view weeks ago, the dentist checked my tooth while was listening to the music. I perceive the dentist is not wrong, because he just listened music. The dentist still able to concentrate to checked my tooth while was listening to the music. I perceive that the dentist was being fun while did his job. Not only a dentist, indeed a tailor able to do it. Listening music while sewing clothes able to reduce boredom. We can conceive how yawnful a tailor to sew clothes from morning to night without any amusement. A painter able to enjoy doing job while listening to the music. Moreover, a painter able to obtain an inspiration from a song.

      The question now, does every job able to doing while listening to the music?off course not. A teacher can't listening to the music while teach student. But,if we compare listen to the music with another hobby, this able tto be a suitable hobby for productive people.

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Discipline

       In world career, we behove discipline and on time every day. In the beginning, maybe we difficult to do it, but after that we able to do it simply. I just wanna say that discipline is habit.
     If we discipline every day, we able to use our time well. No waste time and able to become productive person. Someone who able to success in his/her career always discipline in their life. Without discipline, we can't achieve our dream. In this time, we talking about self-discipline, not military discipline,prison discipline and so forth. Self discipline depend on ourself. We don't discipline or discipline every day is up to us. But, we have to be convinced that no body can success without discipline.
How to be a discipline person?

• Make a schedule

Schedule will bring you tobe a discipline person. After we make it,we should obey the schedule well. We have created a perfect schedule,but do not realize,this could be nothing indeed.

• Wake up in the morning

This is will be effect to our activity in all day. When we wake up in the morning and breath of fresh air, we will feel the effect all of the day. We will obtain extra energy to do our daily activity.

  

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Flexibility

       Flexibility is one of the softskills that we have to possess. Why??because we need flexibility to get many connection to others. We able to make relationship not only with someone who has same culture,same religion, same nation and so forth. If we don't have flexibility skill, we will be difficult to go out from our nation. We just able to live in the same place forever because when we go out, we can't adapt in the different condition. 

     About my opinion, there is one keysentence to become flexibility and adaptable person. The keysentence is we have to be convinced that "everybody is good". If we able to believe that, we will not negative thinking to others who different with us. We able to receive different amount us because God create us different from each other.

     Furthermore if we have believed that everybody is good, we should learn how to approach someone with any different with us. For example, we talk to japanesse is different to talk to american and also different to talk to indonesian because they possess different culture and nation. So, before we make a relationship, we must understand their culture or their nation.

Religious

      Tobe success in our life need religious. Without religious, our life become empty, we don't have a clear destination. We should faith that our life be controlled by our God. What ever, our religion, we ought to be maintain our religious. When we face a problem in our life, we able to handle that matter calmly because we faith that our God will be help us to solve our problem. We also able to vent to our God, ask everything and we believe our God will be give our wish if we have took pains for that. We often hear someone able to escape from frustrating after she/he surrender to God. What about someone who has no religion, maybe she/he decide to suicide,just my opinion.

      We are happy cause we are satisfied with what we have got because we convince that what ever we got never able to defeat what our God have, because all of us belongs to God. Nevertheless, off course we may not to be resigned. We should take pains for what we want and don't be proud.

This is only my opinion and I just wanna say that I am happy tobe a religious person..That's all..:)

Negotiation

Negotiation often be used in our career activity. Negotiation is process to achieve a deal between 2 side. Negotiation consist of 3 part.

• Preparation

In this part, there are some case that we have to hold,namely :

First, we must know with whom we will negotiate. This important because if we know well people who will be take a deal with us, we able to prepare many think before that. We know the character person who will negotiate with us. There are 4 basic character person namely sanguine, phlegmatic, choleric and melancholic. Before we negotiate with someone, we should to know her/his character, so we able to understand the way to win a negotiation. We should learn 4 basic character from book,internet and so forth.

Second, we have to prepare our suitable fashion for that negotiation. This depend on the condition of the negotiation. The blue dress maybe become a suitable fashion for a formal situation. We able to wear black skirt, blue formal dress, black shoes, a wristwatch and a leather bag for a negotiation. This fashion maybe become a safe way to wear in a formal condition.

• Action

When a process negotiation happen, there are some case that we have to hold, namely :

First, body language

Body language is more important than words. We have to controll our eye, hand, foot, lip etc. For example keep eyes contact is one of the important things in our body language, keep smile when negotiation process able to create hostile conditions but we have to create sincere smile not fake smile.

Second, listen

 In a negotiation, listen is more important than talk. We don't need more talk to win a negotiation. But, words choice become is contributing factor to win a negotiation. We should evoid interrupt when someone talk.

Third, assertive

In a negotiation process, we should able to controll our emotion. We will be judged not professional or childish if we can't controll our emotion. Keep assertive.

• Closing

When closing a negotiation, we should keep our emotion. If we can't win a negotiation, we should do not show excessive disappointed. Shake hands before we leave a negotiation will be break the ice.

Communication Skill

Communication skill is very important in our life. This skill become the top skill that could be need. Without possess any skill in communication, someone can't get success in her/his career,relationship and education. There are some factors that could be given contribute when we communicate with others. What is that ?here are 3 of them.

• Attitude

When we meet someone for the first time, we show bad attitude. This will be difficult to change in the next time. So, the first become determination for the next time. But, off course we always show good attitude for the next time. Attitude is not tobe something that we force to do it, but this become our daily activity. we should be change our bad attitude,for success in our life.

• Assertive

We have to controll our emotion. To overcome our problem, we have not to aggressive and we have not to passive. We stand between aggressive and passive. This is assertive. When a problem come, someone whose assertive solve without emotion like aggressive but still do it firm without impress selfish. To become assertive, we have to practice everyday. So this character cling in our activity every day.

• Honest

Honest become the one of effecting factors in communication skill. In some company, someone who have honest is more important than someone who have high IQ. In fact,honest is becoming a rare personality now. So,if we always honest in our activity, we will be look for by many good company. But, the most advantage if we always honest, we never be haunt by feeling guilt. We able to feel free, feel calm and happy life.